best friends

Hardcore Directioner

00:53


Holla! Have you watch This Is Us movie? Yap, One Direction’s documenter in 3D. I've watched it few weeks ago with my bestfriend, her sister and official One Direction Indonesian fanbase. The gathering held in Bekasi, which is out of town. I need to avoid the traffic jam so I decided to go really early. I woke up at 5am and getting ready. I’m arrived in Bekasi around 8am to meet up with my bestfriend, Nessy and her sister, Tita first then we go to the mall together.
 

The mall is still closed -.- but we found the door for the mall staff so we get in over there :D we walked to 5th floor. Yes, we walked. the elevator nor escalator hasn’t worked yet. And yippie! at cinema, even it’s a bit late because we arrived few minutes before the movie begin. I was kind of freak out when I see their cutout.

I can’t stand to not cry, jump off of my seat, sing along and scream with another directioners. The movie is just too precious for me because I never see them live and I don’t know when they want to throw a party (re: concert) here. 

 A majority of gathering attendants are teenagers. I’m 22 and Nessy is 21. We’re probably the oldest here, except the parents that accompanied their kids, the fanbase administrator and crew.
So what? Do you want to call us immature? Or childish? Well, I’m mature enough to know that maturity measurement isn’t from what they like/love and being directioners of the age of ours when majority of directioners are teenagers doesn’t make your argument valid to call us childish.

I’m a hardcore music lover, Nessy was :p But that doesn’t mean I can’t love this kind of genre. So please stop being a judgemental person. You can say bad thing about bands I love because you haven’t know them yet. I’m not that much into One Direction before. Once I retweeted satire tweet about the boys, I know that Nessy got hurt and being more sarcastically defense the Boys. I just laughed at her response. I thought I’m doing the right thing, scoffing them based on what people said WITHOUT knowing the real them. then she surreptitiously poisoning me with One Direction music. I’m questioning myself, what makes her fall into them that hard.

I started to get to know them to prove her maybe she fell in love to the wrong person or music. I googled them and listened to their music. I found out they are NOT that bad. They have something that makes them getting bigger from year to year. They’re truly talented, good hearts and their good faces is just a bonus. Simon never made a bad decision to unite them as a boyband. I liked Liam before he decided to be a bald headed guy. I never like bald guy. Never ever. I’m Nialler now :p

So, I am wearing two hats now, a hardcore music addict and One Direction lover. problem?

This morning I texted Nessy and I asked her to give her opinion about the boys. as far as I’m concerned, she know them so much better than me. So I gave her free hand to fill a gap on this post and write anything she wants on my blog :D

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the post bellow written by : Ines Abilia Primadiany


Sempet underestimate sih di awal2 pas suka 1D, pernah mikir kalo fans 1D rata-rata bocah. malu dan takut di judge kalo bilang aku suka 1D. apa yang nantinya aku bisa banggain dari mereka? kayaknya mereka biasa aja. But now aku punya alasan yang ga ada abisnya haha :') It took years to understand, to learn, to feel it so please don’t judge if you don’t know how it feels to see your favourite people grow up from nothing to be something. you can learn things from what they've been through :') mereka bisa buat fansnya bangga dan ga salah kalo mereka suka 1D. Itu penyebab mereka justru malah lebih lebih dan lebih. Because they keep proving it. I’m really proud of them :') 

Sampe suatu saat i finally got Kamila Aninda Modjo as my profesional fangirl partner haha. Thought it was hard to get her to love 1D because i knew she didn’t like 1D. it was dissapointed me an I’m in doubt if i was wrong or right for loving 1D because my close friends didn’t like them too :( Kebetulan saat itu belum banyak follow 1D account di twitter jadi ngerasa sendirian. Untuk ngetweet tentang 1D aja malu dan ragu krn yang aku bilang tadi, aku masih dikelilingin hardcore fans. I didn’t want them to hate me just because i loved 1D. Tapi tahun demi tahun I just love them more and more. i want people to see them as i see. Because when you're being honest to yourself it'll make u happier than you just tried to look cool and hide what you actually want to do. I don’t mind if i lose followers.






Seiring waktu aku ketemu banyak akun 1D, awalnya sih cuma fanbase-fanbase. Makin lama, follow funny fan account nya juga. Haha. Bisa di cek di following aku :') My obssesion is turning into love and it’s getting harder :') it irritates me when i see rude or bad comment about them or directioners. it makes me want to defend them more. Because i know who they are and as i said earlier, It took years to understand :')

I didn’t know how Kamila finally fell in love with 1D maybe she’ll tell you by herself in her blog. Haha yang aku inget Kamil tiba-tiba ngirim pic klo Kamil lagi nonton UAN. Jeder! Disitu kaget banget plus terharu :’) Karena yang aku tau Kamil didn’t like them dan itu kenapa aku ga brani 'ngehasut' kamil utk suka. why should have i tried if i knew the answer? But i was wrong :') sampe akhirnya kita meet up pertama kalinya di Musik Plus MKG dan itu awal Take Me Home rilis. inget banget soalnya di depan M+ ada cut out 1D dari album TMH. pas sampe tempat karaoke ternyata Kamil put Moment on the first playlist. I was shocked. i didn’t even ask her for that :') yah kita sing along dan ternyata Kamil juga hapal haha tambah kaget lagi. Disitu baru ketemu tapi udah ngerasa enjoy banget tapi disitu aku blm tau klo ternyata kamil mulai suka 1D juga haha.


akhirnya ada nobar This Is Us dari official fanbase di Indonesia, dan aku mention Kamil linknya. ga bisa berharap banyak waktu itu, krn aku mikirnya mana mau Kamil nobar 1d jauh-jauh ke Bekasi. aku mau orang terdeket ku bisa appreciate atau seenggaknya tau kenapa aku suka banget sm mereka, Alhamdulillah kalo ternyata bisa suka juga :’) I was wrong again because she actually did it.
Sampe akhirnya di bioskop, film mulai. Semua teriak histeris. Padahal itu baru logo modest, syco, sony sama tristar doang haha. aku dengar teriakan kecil dari sebelah ku. Yup Kamil. I was like "oow i think she really meant what she said about loving 1D" well sepanjang film seluruh isi studio itu non stop ngejerit & tepuk tangan. Baru kali itu nonton film di bioskop tapi berisik banget. Hahaha lucunya, ga ada yang komplain satu sm lain. Karena we all did the same thing during the movie. Dan yang mengejutkannya lagi Kamil nangissss tersedu2 sambil nutupin idung sm mulutnya hahah. And i was screaming inside like “MAN I SWEAR SHE'S GONNA BE WITH ME IN THE FRONT ROW IF 1D CAME HERE OH GOD THANK U FINALLY I GOT A MATE WHO CAN SEE HOW ACTUALLY THE BOYS ARE LIKE WHAT I’VE SEEN ON THE BOYS TOO” :')

Im really glad finally she really fell for them :') I don’t want to see my bestfriend judge my fav people without knowing them first, it makes me sad. it's a plus because my bestfriend loves my favourite people.

 

backpacker

Be A Traveller in Your Own Country!

16:39



gue lagi merencanakan untuk terbang keluar pulau, sendirian. ada 3 tempat yang pengen banget gue kunjungin:
1. Semarang. ketemu satu sahabat gue disana. dan mungkin akan nyebrang ke Bali,naik kapal.



2. Gorontalo. kampung halaman yang terakhir gue kunjungin waktu masih kecil :/



3. Palembang. pengen banget makan pempek asli Palembang, dan liat liputan di TV tentang kota yang satu ini. mama gue juga bilang "keren yaa, kayak diluar negeri"

  


semua tempat tujuan gue ini, panasnya minta ampun. ngalahin jakarta. jadi harus siap item. haha
gue akan bahas tentang salah satu dari kota ini nanti. setelah rencana gue berjalan pastinya. rencananya nanti 1 atau 2 minggu lagi. tapi mana enak travelling pas puasa. ga bisa wisata kuliner :/

gue mau kasih tips tentang  "10 hal untuk jadi backpacker yang asik"

1. bawa barang secukupnya.
pakaian, sendal/sepatu, alat untuk ibadah, handuk, payung/topi (antisipasi tiba2 hujan atau cuaca sangat panas), obat2an pribadi/umum (termasuk obat nyamuk), peralatan mandi, kamera, MP3 Player, charger/power bank, tas yang ukurannya lebih kecil (untuk cewek-cewek yang nggak mau ribet), isi dompet juga harus lengkap (KTP, ATM/kartu kredit).  kalian juga pasti ga mau jalan dari satu tempat ke tempat lain bawa tas segede gaban di punggung kalian.

2. Hemat!
makan makanan di pinggir jalan biasanya bisa lebih khas sekaligus bisa nikmatin keindahan pemandangan sekitar. pasti beda deh feel nya walaupun yang kalian liat itu cuma jalanan yg dilaluin sama kendaraan bermotor.

3. Belajar bahasa lokal
acara travelling lo juga bakal lebih seru kalau kalian bisa belajar bahasa lokal. yang simple dan bakal sering digunain aja, misalnya bahasa lokal kalau mau nawar harga barang atau semacamnya :p

4. Jangan terlalu banyak planning
 karena biasanya sesuatu yang terplanning dengan amat sangat baik bakalan gagal. setuju? :)

5. Buang rasa takut
kalo belum jalan udah parno duluan, "duh, gimana nih kalo gue nyasar?", "kalo tiba-tiba gue dicopet gimana?". palingan bakalan ended up di hotel. diem doang gitu ga ada kegiatan. ngebosenin banget kan? jadi buang pikiran parno kalian. di kota sendiri berani kenapa harus takut di kota orang lain?

6. Cari teman penduduk asli
lumayan buat tour guide kalian selama kalian berlibur. nggak perlu kayak Dora lagi apa-apa liat peta :p

7. Istirahat yang cukup
jangan maksain pergi ke banyak tempat dalam satu hari. selain kalian ga bisa nikmatin pemandangan yang ada, kalian bisa sakit. ga enak loh kalo sakit dan kita jauh dari orang-orang yang kita kenal.

8. Abadikan momen kamu, tapi jangan berlebihan.
mungkin agak aneh denger statement gue diatas. mungkin kalian akan mengabadikan hal-hal disekitar dengan kamera kalian tiap menitnya. tapi kalian lupa untuk benar-benar menikmati trip kalian di kota tsb. 

9. Malu bertanya sesat dijalan
jangan akut untuk minta bantuan atau sekedar tanya jalan ke penduduk lokal. ga sedikit orang yang akan dengan senang hati bantu atau sekedar jawab pertanyaan kalian kok :)

10. Sendiri/sama temen? ga masalah
masing2 punya keuntungan masing-masing kok. kalau sendiri, kalian akan punya lebih banyak waktu untuk introspeksi, lebih kenal sama diri kamu sendiri dan mau nggak mau kalian akan cari teman baru untuk nemenin kalian paling enggak jadi tour guide kalian.
kalau sama temen, kalian bisa membuat lebih banyak kenangan berdua, dan mungkin bisa lebih hemat karena satu kamar hihi





chase your dream

Keep Your Dream Alive

12:20



paling ga suka denger kata2 "kalo mimpi jangan ketinggian". lohh untuk apa pelit bermimpi? mimpi adalah doa dan bisa menjadi motivasi. jangan jadi orang yang pesimis dan takut untuk bermimpi!

 

really don't like to hear the words "do not dream too high". huh? why do you afraid to dream? dream is a wish your heart makes and could be a motivation. do not be a pessimist and be afraid to dream!

If your dream is big enough, the facts don't count." -Don Ward

blog

Habiskan Saja Gajimu!!

17:40

lagi kerja tiba2 ngidam spicy wings nya Richeese Factory. alhasil, pulang kantor mampir dulu ke mall yang lokasinya kebetulan kepleset dikit langsung sampe dari kantor hehe
ini perdana makan disitu sebenernya. dan ternyata spicy wings nya bener-bener nampol banget. saya pesen yang level 3 aja udah hampir nyerah untuk ngabisin sayap-sayap pedas itu. kepedesan tapi bikin penasaran. :D

cukup segitu aja review soal richeese factorynya karena postingan saya kali ini bukan mau ngebahas soal Richeese karena batre saya low saat itu jadi ga bisa foto-foto makanan yang saya pesan :p

setelah perut kenyang, saya mampir ke TGA, iseng2 liat buku2 baru. iseng aja, gak niat beli karena novel dirumah banyak banget yang belum dibaca. beli nya sering tapi bacanya ga sempet -.-"
it's okay if you wanted to call me a "bookworm". I love books. I do really love books. kayak punya passion tersendiri kalo berada ditengah-tengah buku. orang-orang mungkin lebih pilih ke mall kalau lagi bete walaupun cuma sekedar window shopping. nah kalo saya lebih memilih ke toko buku :D

tiba2 mata saya tertuju sama satu buku. cover yang benar-benar simple dengan judul yang cukup bikin penasaran: Habiskan Saja Gajimu!!



setelah baca review singkat dibelakangnya, tanpa pikir panjang saya membeli buku tersebut. niat yang awalnya hanya ingin melihat-lihat pun hancur seketika.
"kalau saja penghasilan saya lebih besar, tentunya masalah keuangan ini akan cepat selesai."
dan
"kalau gaji saya sudah naik, baru deh saya bisa nabung dengan rutin"
dua kata diatas pasti sering sekali kalian ucapkan kalau keinginan kalian untuk menabung nggak terpenuhi.
buku ini sebenarnya simple dan mungkin hanya akan membutuhkan beberapa halaman untuk bisa mengerti apa inti dari buku ini. isi buku menurut saya terlalu berbelit-belit hingga jadi 174 halaman.
 
dua kata yang saya kutip diatas belum tentu akan terpenuhi apabila menjadi kenyataan. berapapun jumlahnya gaji pasti akan habis jika kita tidak me-manage-nya dengan baik.
daripada menyisihkan, lebih baik menghabiskan. toh walaupun niat awal kita menyisihkan, uang yang serahusnya kita sisihkan pasti akan habis juga. entah jelas atau tidak.

yang perlu dirubah sebenarnya hanya urutan cashflow nya saja.
beberapa dari kalian mungkin punya cashflow seperti ini:

Penghasilan                                                                                        100%
Sosial (zakat, derma, santunan, perpuluhan)                              2,5%
Shopping (belanja konsumsi, transportasi, listrik, telp)          57,5%
Cicilan hutang (kredit rumah, kendaraan, kartu kredit)              30%
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Saving (tabungan cadangan, Premi Asuransi, Investasi)           10%

berani bertaruh kalau uang yang seharusnya dipakai buat saving itu akhirnya terpakai dengan percuma.

nah, makanya urutannya harus diubah:


Penghasilan                                                                                        100%
Sosial (zakat, derma, santunan, perpuluhan)                              2,5%
Cicilan hutang (kredit rumah, kendaraan, kartu kredit)              30%
Saving (tabungan cadangan, Premi Asuransi, Investasi)           10%
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Shopping (belanja konsumsi, transportasi, listrik, telp)          57,5%

cuma urutannya aja kok yang diubah. angkanya belum ada yang dirubah.
pengeluaran akan tetap habis, tapi lebih terkontrol karena uang untuk saving pasti diamankan duluan.

mau tau alasannya kenapa?
beli bukunya dong biar lebih jelas info nya ;)
 

animal

Casper

17:22

lagi-lagi menghiraukan blog ini.
kasian sampe berdebu saking lamanya ga disentuh. lagi libur kerja dan gak tau mau ngapain, akhirnya terdampar di blog ini.
agak bingung mau nulis apa di post kali ini. dan mungkin  akan bernasib sama seperti post aku setahun lalu yang agak trashy :p
tampilan blog ini ga akan diubah, masih sama dengan 3 tahun lalu, setia sama warna hijau yang menentramkan jiwa ini *apasih

well, banyak banget perubahan yang terjadi setelah post terakhir aku di 2010.

aku udah ga sama Ben lagi, pria asal New Zealand yang pernah beberapa kali aku ceritain di blog ini.
bisa dibilang kapok sama yang namanya Long Distance Relationship.enough is enough. hehe

oh, waktu itu aku pernah ngepost tentang hedgehog kan? iyaa, yang binatang impian aku itu. masih inget ga? nih postingannya kalo pada lupa hihi
oke, di postingan ini mendingan aku bahas hedgehog lagi aja yaaa..

tahun lalu akhirnya aku punya hedgehog yang aku beli pake gaji pertama aku :D
imut banget. jenisnya Salt and Pepper. I named him Casper. I took his name from Casper The Friendly Ghost. people might be scared if they see Casper because they probably think that his prickle is dangerous and he bites.
I can say they're all wrong if they think that way. he's really tame and cute. he never bites, just roll his body if he think something dangerous will happen. his spine is just like a new brush. it won't hurt your hand if you touch it. trust me.

here's few pictures of my Casper :)

 me and Casper. look how tiny he is! :D


I laid him down on my lap :)

took this picture after I took him a bath :D
yes, there's catfood :)

Adam gallagher

HOLLA!

13:52





it's been 2 years! a lot of things happened. no matter good or bad, i am happy with my life right now. full of bliss.

i don't feel like knowing what to post.
but I'd post things on here more often.
I promise :D

I'm hoping I could own that super cool scarf from Number A.

wish me luck!
xo

FYI

Monstresolution

06:42


2010 memories
..made this blog :D

..got the most caring besties in college ♥
..got the most amazing birthday surprise in my life.
..knew some new peoples strangers from twitter and being bestfriends.
..hung out with lots of awesome people at gigs :D and made some new concert buddies!
..LDR

..had trip to some town with my besties.
..learned to drive but the vehicle bumped the sidewalk.
..fell down when getting out from car and lots of eyes on me at that time.
..lost on highway when wanna go back home from mall. end up in other town, Bandung.
..went back to home after watching gig and got an accident cause chased by police. the vehicle bumped the fences and made me injuries on my face.

..merged into website team in my college.
..got some complicated problems about my college.
..designed some posters and banners for events in college.
..R.I.P my favourite teacher on JHS. we love you, sir.

..I got my husky voice.
..trapped in nasty secret association.
..dealed with lotta polices. jerky police when I went back home after met my friend from Semarang. super kind polices when I wanna meet my X and my battery is empty.

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2011 resolution
meet him....
gain weight!....
dye my hair....
be able to cook....
get
Hedgehog as my pet....
no more
lost when I go out alone....
get a better mark on the Report Card (such as 90% up)....
stop put too much faith to someone that say
sweet words....
I will give up chocolates totally. 100%. Completely. Honestly....
stop expect everything that have a good start will get a
happy ending....
stop dating heart-breakers. At least, know that I'm dating a heart-breaker....