C A L Y X

Obsessed With One Direction

10:55

Hey boys I'm waiting on ya, waiting on ya / Come on and let me freak you out / You're a drug that's taken over, I'm rarely sober / From this high I won't come down
yeaaaaah, you'll be singing like you do / And I'm acting like a fool / Crazy for you / Yeaaaah, you'll be singing like you do / And I'm acting like a fool / Coz tonight ....
I've gone crazy, crazy, crazy for One Direction / I know it's kinda strange, but I've fallen in love / I'm never, never, never leaving this fandom / I'll always be obsessed with One Direction
It might be strange behaviour, strange behaviour / Staying up on Tumblr all night / Reblogging gifsets of ya, gifsets of ya / But to me it feels alright woaaaah
Hey Niall, Louis, Zayn / Harry Styles and Liaaammmmmm / I'm obsessed with One Direction / We're obsessed with One Direction

Obsessed With One Direction - Kimmi Smiles (Live While We're Young Parody)

the post bellow is written by: Nessy Primadiany

What I’ve been through about the boys? Well i knew 1D few years ago. Actually i knew them before by tumblr because so many people talking about them there. i still remember once I found Harry’s pic holding a "we ❤ tumblr girls" sign. Thought he was one of famous tumblr guy. haha

I fell in love with them but it was not this hard (like now). I still remember in that time, it was hard for me to find another 1D fans. All i saw was a few hate on them. I kept asking “why?” i found no reason to hate them. To be honest, it scared me to state that I love 1D. I thought it was a shame if people knew i loved 1D. I was a fan of another hardcore bands or even heavymetal at the same time and most of my followers were hardcore fans. that was why i said "they were only my little secret" :') but seiring perjalanan waktu, aku justru lebih cari tau tentang mereka and it made me fall harder. Aku search the whole video of them on youtube dari page 1 di youtube sampe akhir include video diary, funny moments, best moments, bloopers, lots of interviews, shows, behind the scene etc.

made me think "what's wrong with these guys? Why do people hate these cuties? They're just being honest to themselves and didn’t even try to be like others. they're not even trying to be perfect in the camera. They're so funny and they just do what they wanna do without realising that so many people watched them." Seleb lain mungkin udah prepare mau ngomong apa aja klo di interview. And 1D are just stating their jokes and being too honest there.

It hurts me when i saw people judge 1D for some irrelevant things like "they're gay." It sounds so homophobic. I mean what's wrong with being gay? all of them have ex girlfriends even before X Factor. we all know Harry dated Caroline Flack (X Factor host). She’s very older than Harry. Sampe pas abis putus Louis bilang "when Harry left Caroline, he spent all day crying. We tried to make him feel better but we all ended up in tears." :') before Caroline, he also had another ex girlfriends like Emma (normal girl). He was also with Taylor Swift. But nggak bertahan lama because what i heard that Harry found out Taylor still texting Connor Kennedy that her missed him :')

So did Niall. he broke up with his girlfriend, Holly Scally because he wanted to focus in X Factor. And Niall is still single pringles till now :'). Liam was with Danielle (dancer on the X Factor), hampir 3 tahun tapi sayang sekarang udah putus dan sekarang sm Sophia Smith :'). Louis was with Hannah before he’s with Eleanor. Hannah Walker, teman sekolahnya Louis dan dia yang support Louis untuk ikut X Factor. Sampe akhirnya putus, trus jadian sama si gorgeous Eleanor sampai sekarang. Begitupun Zayn. He dated Rebecca Ferguson (X Factor finalist), older than him tapi akhirnya putus dan jadi sm Perrie sampe sekarang dan tunangan.

People didn’t know what they've sacrificed to reach what they’ve got now. Haters said they don’t deserve it, said they can’t sing, said they're just the same typical boyband, said they will stop getting all of these. But where's the proof? Its been 3 years and they're still standing up right there winning so many awards continually, breaking the records, album #1 in more than turdy seven countries, sold all the ticket tours, top sale, etc. Man, some people were blind. I’ve seen those who said bad things about them now they're turning into directioners. I’ve seen it :') alot of people in my timeline :') how the tables have turned.

Dan yang bikin fall in love nya lagi. Mereka nggak cuma lucu, bisa nyanyi, good looking and do crazy things. They also have a really good heart :') Mereka involved ke berbagai charity. tanpa jijik sdikit pun mereka turun langsung ke tempat yang kumuh banget. Orangnya dekil-dekil. Tapi mereka ngerangkul orang-orang itu tanpa ada rasa jijik, ga ngebedain sama sekali. kebanyakkan "white people" won't do that but they do :') baju mereka sampai ikutan dekil karena gendong anak Afrika itu :') pas di rumah sakit pun mereka nangis liat kondisi anak2 (HOW CAN HATERS CALL HARRY AS A MANWHORE).

Ngomong2 soal manwhore, Harry pernah ngasih uang homeless yang lagi tidur dijalan tanpa ngebangunin orang itu. kalau dia sombong, dia bisa aja bangunin dan bilang “ini dari gue'” but he didn’t. Dia juga pernah ngasih ratusan pizza ke homeless. Dia ngasih kalung kesayangannya ke Fridous anak kecil di Afrika as a symbol of his hope that it can save her there. he also told her that she was beautiful.

pas di premiere TIU di NY kmrn pun ada fans yang ga bisa berhenti nangis,trus harry nyamperin blg yg intinya "km knp? Jangan nangis" dan harry blg "saya ga akan pergi sblm km berhenti nangis" :") he hugged her. Aghhbsddn

Dan 1D pernah ikut acara prank gitu. Yang pertama di nickelodeon, ibu hamil dan you know siapa yang paling khawatir disana dan terus2an megang ibu hamil nya sambil bilang "breathe"? Harry :') he didn’t even know there was a camera. So the point is, he’s not trying to be perfect, not trying to be cool, not act like a member of the biggest boyband on the world, its just who they are, normal lads but terrible dancers :'). Dan di acara prank yang ke dua itu di "good morning New Zealand". Mereka smua gatau klo mereka dikerjain, jadi acara interaktif dari NZ ke London gt. Mereka tetep di London tapi ada tv live dari NZ yang telp. mereka. Critanya NZ kirim fans berat mereka ke London untuk ketemu mereka, terus pas udah ketemu di studio itu fansnya kena asma hahahah dan Harry lagi yang paling ketipu :') yang lain kayaknya udah tau klo itu dikerjain apalagi Louis, sassy master. nobody can’t prank him. karena mereka cuma ketawa aja ngeliatnya. Omg i’ve seen alot of good things they've done and if i have to say it all, it will be an endless story to write.

best friends

Hardcore Directioner

00:53

Holla! Have you watch This Is Us movie? Yap, One Direction’s documenter in 3D. I've watched it few weeks ago with my bestfriend, her sister and official One Direction Indonesian fanbase. The gathering held in Bekasi, which is out of town. I need to avoid the traffic jam so I decided to go really early. I woke up at 5am and getting ready. I’m arrived in Bekasi around 8am to meet up with my bestfriend, Nessy and her sister, Tita first then we go to the mall together.

The mall is still closed -.- but we found the door for the mall staff so we get in over there :D we walked to 5^th floor. Yes, we walked. the elevator nor escalator hasn’t worked yet. And yippie! at cinema, even it’s a bit late because we arrived few minutes before the movie begin. I was kind of freak out when I see their cutout.

I can’t stand to not cry, jump off of my seat, sing along and scream with another directioners. The movie is just too precious for me because I never see them live and I don’t know when they want to throw a party (re: concert) here.

A majority of gathering attendants are teenagers. I’m 22 and Nessy is 21. We’re probably the oldest here, except the parents that accompanied their kids, the fanbase administrator and crew.

So what? Do you want to call us immature? Or childish? Well, I’m mature enough to know that maturity measurement isn’t from what they like/love and being directioners of the age of ours when majority of directioners are teenagers doesn’t make your argument valid to call us childish.

I’m a hardcore music lover, Nessy was :p But that doesn’t mean I can’t love this kind of genre. So please stop being a judgemental person. You can say bad thing about bands I love because you haven’t know them yet. I’m not that much into One Direction before. Once I retweeted satire tweet about the boys, I know that Nessy got hurt and being more sarcastically defense the Boys. I just laughed at her response. I thought I’m doing the right thing, scoffing them based on what people said WITHOUT knowing the real them. then she surreptitiously poisoning me with One Direction music. I’m questioning myself, what makes her fall into them that hard.

I started to get to know them to prove her maybe she fell in love to the wrong person or music. I googled them and listened to their music. I found out they are NOT that bad. They have something that makes them getting bigger from year to year. They’re truly talented, good hearts and their good faces is just a bonus. Simon never made a bad decision to unite them as a boyband. I liked Liam before he decided to be a bald headed guy. I never like bald guy. Never ever. I’m Nialler now :p

So, I am wearing two hats now, a hardcore music addict and One Direction lover. problem?

This morning I texted Nessy and I asked her to give her opinion about the boys. as far as I’m concerned, she know them so much better than me. So I gave her free hand to fill a gap on this post and write anything she wants on my blog :D

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the post bellow written by : Ines Abilia Primadiany

Sempet underestimate sih di awal2 pas suka 1D, pernah mikir kalo fans 1D rata-rata bocah. malu dan takut di judge kalo bilang aku suka 1D. apa yang nantinya aku bisa banggain dari mereka? kayaknya mereka biasa aja. But now aku punya alasan yang ga ada abisnya haha :') It took years to understand, to learn, to feel it so please don’t judge if you don’t know how it feels to see your favourite people grow up from nothing to be something. you can learn things from what they've been through :') mereka bisa buat fansnya bangga dan ga salah kalo mereka suka 1D. Itu penyebab mereka justru malah lebih lebih dan lebih. Because they keep proving it. I’m really proud of them :')

Sampe suatu saat i finally got Kamila Aninda Modjo as my profesional fangirl partner haha. Thought it was hard to get her to love 1D because i knew she didn’t like 1D. it was dissapointed me an I’m in doubt if i was wrong or right for loving 1D because my close friends didn’t like them too :( Kebetulan saat itu belum banyak follow 1D account di twitter jadi ngerasa sendirian. Untuk ngetweet tentang 1D aja malu dan ragu krn yang aku bilang tadi, aku masih dikelilingin hardcore fans. I didn’t want them to hate me just because i loved 1D. Tapi tahun demi tahun I just love them more and more. i want people to see them as i see. Because when you're being honest to yourself it'll make u happier than you just tried to look cool and hide what you actually want to do. I don’t mind if i lose followers.

Seiring waktu aku ketemu banyak akun 1D, awalnya sih cuma fanbase-fanbase. Makin lama, follow funny fan account nya juga. Haha. Bisa di cek di following aku :') My obssesion is turning into love and it’s getting harder :') it irritates me when i see rude or bad comment about them or directioners. it makes me want to defend them more. Because i know who they are and as i said earlier, It took years to understand :')

I didn’t know how Kamila finally fell in love with 1D maybe she’ll tell you by herself in her blog. Haha yang aku inget Kamil tiba-tiba ngirim pic klo Kamil lagi nonton UAN. Jeder! Disitu kaget banget plus terharu :’) Karena yang aku tau Kamil didn’t like them dan itu kenapa aku ga brani 'ngehasut' kamil utk suka. why should have i tried if i knew the answer? But i was wrong :') sampe akhirnya kita meet up pertama kalinya di Musik Plus MKG dan itu awal Take Me Home rilis. inget banget soalnya di depan M+ ada cut out 1D dari album TMH. pas sampe tempat karaoke ternyata Kamil put Moment on the first playlist. I was shocked. i didn’t even ask her for that :') yah kita sing along dan ternyata Kamil juga hapal haha tambah kaget lagi. Disitu baru ketemu tapi udah ngerasa enjoy banget tapi disitu aku blm tau klo ternyata kamil mulai suka 1D juga haha.

akhirnya ada nobar This Is Us dari official fanbase di Indonesia, dan aku mention Kamil linknya. ga bisa berharap banyak waktu itu, krn aku mikirnya mana mau Kamil nobar 1d jauh-jauh ke Bekasi. aku mau orang terdeket ku bisa appreciate atau seenggaknya tau kenapa aku suka banget sm mereka, Alhamdulillah kalo ternyata bisa suka juga :’) I was wrong again because she actually did it.

Sampe akhirnya di bioskop, film mulai. Semua teriak histeris. Padahal itu baru logo modest, syco, sony sama tristar doang haha. aku dengar teriakan kecil dari sebelah ku. Yup Kamil. I was like "oow i think she really meant what she said about loving 1D" well sepanjang film seluruh isi studio itu non stop ngejerit & tepuk tangan. Baru kali itu nonton film di bioskop tapi berisik banget. Hahaha lucunya, ga ada yang komplain satu sm lain. Karena we all did the same thing during the movie. Dan yang mengejutkannya lagi Kamil nangissss tersedu2 sambil nutupin idung sm mulutnya hahah. And i was screaming inside like “MAN I SWEAR SHE'S GONNA BE WITH ME IN THE FRONT ROW IF 1D CAME HERE OH GOD THANK U FINALLY I GOT A MATE WHO CAN SEE HOW ACTUALLY THE BOYS ARE LIKE WHAT I’VE SEEN ON THE BOYS TOO” :')

Im really glad finally she really fell for them :') I don’t want to see my bestfriend judge my fav people without knowing them first, it makes me sad. it's a plus because my bestfriend loves my favourite people.

backpacker

Be A Traveller in Your Own Country!

16:39

gue lagi merencanakan untuk terbang keluar pulau, sendirian. ada 3 tempat yang pengen banget gue kunjungin:
1. Semarang. ketemu satu sahabat gue disana. dan mungkin akan nyebrang ke Bali,naik kapal.

2. Gorontalo. kampung halaman yang terakhir gue kunjungin waktu masih kecil :/

3. Palembang. pengen banget makan pempek asli Palembang, dan liat liputan di TV tentang kota yang satu ini. mama gue juga bilang "keren yaa, kayak diluar negeri"

semua tempat tujuan gue ini, panasnya minta ampun. ngalahin jakarta. jadi harus siap item. haha
gue akan bahas tentang salah satu dari kota ini nanti. setelah rencana gue berjalan pastinya. rencananya nanti 1 atau 2 minggu lagi. tapi mana enak travelling pas puasa. ga bisa wisata kuliner :/

gue mau kasih tips tentang "10 hal untuk jadi backpacker yang asik"

1. bawa barang secukupnya.
pakaian, sendal/sepatu, alat untuk ibadah, handuk, payung/topi (antisipasi tiba2 hujan atau cuaca sangat panas), obat2an pribadi/umum (termasuk obat nyamuk), peralatan mandi, kamera, MP3 Player, charger/power bank, tas yang ukurannya lebih kecil (untuk cewek-cewek yang nggak mau ribet), isi dompet juga harus lengkap (KTP, ATM/kartu kredit). kalian juga pasti ga mau jalan dari satu tempat ke tempat lain bawa tas segede gaban di punggung kalian.

2. Hemat!
makan makanan di pinggir jalan biasanya bisa lebih khas sekaligus bisa nikmatin keindahan pemandangan sekitar. pasti beda deh feel nya walaupun yang kalian liat itu cuma jalanan yg dilaluin sama kendaraan bermotor.

3. Belajar bahasa lokal
acara travelling lo juga bakal lebih seru kalau kalian bisa belajar bahasa lokal. yang simple dan bakal sering digunain aja, misalnya bahasa lokal kalau mau nawar harga barang atau semacamnya :p

4. Jangan terlalu banyak planning
karena biasanya sesuatu yang terplanning dengan amat sangat baik bakalan gagal. setuju? :)

5. Buang rasa takut
kalo belum jalan udah parno duluan, "duh, gimana nih kalo gue nyasar?", "kalo tiba-tiba gue dicopet gimana?". palingan bakalan ended up di hotel. diem doang gitu ga ada kegiatan. ngebosenin banget kan? jadi buang pikiran parno kalian. di kota sendiri berani kenapa harus takut di kota orang lain?

6. Cari teman penduduk asli
lumayan buat tour guide kalian selama kalian berlibur. nggak perlu kayak Dora lagi apa-apa liat peta :p

7. Istirahat yang cukup
jangan maksain pergi ke banyak tempat dalam satu hari. selain kalian ga bisa nikmatin pemandangan yang ada, kalian bisa sakit. ga enak loh kalo sakit dan kita jauh dari orang-orang yang kita kenal.

8. Abadikan momen kamu, tapi jangan berlebihan.
mungkin agak aneh denger statement gue diatas. mungkin kalian akan mengabadikan hal-hal disekitar dengan kamera kalian tiap menitnya. tapi kalian lupa untuk benar-benar menikmati trip kalian di kota tsb.

9. Malu bertanya sesat dijalan
jangan akut untuk minta bantuan atau sekedar tanya jalan ke penduduk lokal. ga sedikit orang yang akan dengan senang hati bantu atau sekedar jawab pertanyaan kalian kok :)

10. Sendiri/sama temen? ga masalah
masing2 punya keuntungan masing-masing kok. kalau sendiri, kalian akan punya lebih banyak waktu untuk introspeksi, lebih kenal sama diri kamu sendiri dan mau nggak mau kalian akan cari teman baru untuk nemenin kalian paling enggak jadi tour guide kalian.
kalau sama temen, kalian bisa membuat lebih banyak kenangan berdua, dan mungkin bisa lebih hemat karena satu kamar hihi

chase your dream

Keep Your Dream Alive

12:20

paling ga suka denger kata2 "kalo mimpi jangan ketinggian". lohh untuk apa pelit bermimpi? mimpi adalah doa dan bisa menjadi motivasi. jangan jadi orang yang pesimis dan takut untuk bermimpi!

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really don't like to hear the words "do not dream too high". huh? why do you afraid to dream? dream is a wish your heart makes and could be a motivation. do not be a pessimist and be afraid to dream!

If your dream is big enough, the facts don't count." -Don Ward

blog

Habiskan Saja Gajimu!!

17:40

lagi kerja tiba2 ngidam spicy wings nya Richeese Factory. alhasil, pulang kantor mampir dulu ke mall yang lokasinya kebetulan kepleset dikit langsung sampe dari kantor hehe
ini perdana makan disitu sebenernya. dan ternyata spicy wings nya bener-bener nampol banget. saya pesen yang level 3 aja udah hampir nyerah untuk ngabisin sayap-sayap pedas itu. kepedesan tapi bikin penasaran. :D

cukup segitu aja review soal richeese factorynya karena postingan saya kali ini bukan mau ngebahas soal Richeese karena batre saya low saat itu jadi ga bisa foto-foto makanan yang saya pesan :p

setelah perut kenyang, saya mampir ke TGA, iseng2 liat buku2 baru. iseng aja, gak niat beli karena novel dirumah banyak banget yang belum dibaca. beli nya sering tapi bacanya ga sempet -.-"
it's okay if you wanted to call me a "bookworm". I love books. I do really love books. kayak punya passion tersendiri kalo berada ditengah-tengah buku. orang-orang mungkin lebih pilih ke mall kalau lagi bete walaupun cuma sekedar window shopping. nah kalo saya lebih memilih ke toko buku :D

tiba2 mata saya tertuju sama satu buku. cover yang benar-benar simple dengan judul yang cukup bikin penasaran: Habiskan Saja Gajimu!!

setelah baca review singkat dibelakangnya, tanpa pikir panjang saya membeli buku tersebut. niat yang awalnya hanya ingin melihat-lihat pun hancur seketika.

"kalau saja penghasilan saya lebih besar, tentunya masalah keuangan ini akan cepat selesai."

dan

"kalau gaji saya sudah naik, baru deh saya bisa nabung dengan rutin"

dua kata diatas pasti sering sekali kalian ucapkan kalau keinginan kalian untuk menabung nggak terpenuhi.
buku ini sebenarnya simple dan mungkin hanya akan membutuhkan beberapa halaman untuk bisa mengerti apa inti dari buku ini. isi buku menurut saya terlalu berbelit-belit hingga jadi 174 halaman.

dua kata yang saya kutip diatas belum tentu akan terpenuhi apabila menjadi kenyataan. berapapun jumlahnya gaji pasti akan habis jika kita tidak me-manage-nya dengan baik.
daripada menyisihkan, lebih baik menghabiskan. toh walaupun niat awal kita menyisihkan, uang yang serahusnya kita sisihkan pasti akan habis juga. entah jelas atau tidak.

yang perlu dirubah sebenarnya hanya urutan cashflow nya saja.
beberapa dari kalian mungkin punya cashflow seperti ini:

Penghasilan                                                                                  100%
Sosial (zakat, derma, santunan, perpuluhan)                            2,5%
Shopping (belanja konsumsi, transportasi, listrik, telp)      57,5%
Cicilan hutang (kredit rumah, kendaraan, kartu kredit)        30%
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Saving (tabungan cadangan, Premi Asuransi, Investasi)         10%

berani bertaruh kalau uang yang seharusnya dipakai buat saving itu akhirnya terpakai dengan percuma.
nah, makanya urutannya harus diubah:

Penghasilan                                                                                  100%
Sosial (zakat, derma, santunan, perpuluhan)                            2,5%
Cicilan hutang (kredit rumah, kendaraan, kartu kredit)        30%
Saving (tabungan cadangan, Premi Asuransi, Investasi)         10%
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Shopping (belanja konsumsi, transportasi, listrik, telp)      57,5%

cuma urutannya aja kok yang diubah. angkanya belum ada yang dirubah.
pengeluaran akan tetap habis, tapi lebih terkontrol karena uang untuk saving pasti diamankan duluan.

mau tau alasannya kenapa?
beli bukunya dong biar lebih jelas info nya ;)

animal

Casper

17:22

lagi-lagi menghiraukan blog ini.
kasian sampe berdebu saking lamanya ga disentuh. lagi libur kerja dan gak tau mau ngapain, akhirnya terdampar di blog ini.
agak bingung mau nulis apa di post kali ini. dan mungkin akan bernasib sama seperti post aku setahun lalu yang agak trashy :p
tampilan blog ini ga akan diubah, masih sama dengan 3 tahun lalu, setia sama warna hijau yang menentramkan jiwa ini *apasih

well, banyak banget perubahan yang terjadi setelah post terakhir aku di 2010.

aku udah ga sama Ben lagi, pria asal New Zealand yang pernah beberapa kali aku ceritain di blog ini.
bisa dibilang kapok sama yang namanya Long Distance Relationship.enough is enough. hehe

oh, waktu itu aku pernah ngepost tentang hedgehog kan? iyaa, yang binatang impian aku itu. masih inget ga? nih postingannya kalo pada lupa hihi
oke, di postingan ini mendingan aku bahas hedgehog lagi aja yaaa..

tahun lalu akhirnya aku punya hedgehog yang aku beli pake gaji pertama aku :D
imut banget. jenisnya Salt and Pepper. I named him Casper. I took his name from Casper The Friendly Ghost. people might be scared if they see Casper because they probably think that his prickle is dangerous and he bites.
I can say they're all wrong if they think that way. he's really tame and cute. he never bites, just roll his body if he think something dangerous will happen. his spine is just like a new brush. it won't hurt your hand if you touch it. trust me.

here's few pictures of my Casper :)